5 Tips for Navigating the Child Custody Court Order Process

Going through child custody disputes can be an emotional and confusing time. When a court order is in place detailing custody arrangements, visitation schedules, and other specifics, it's important to understand the details and properly follow the order. Here are some tips to help you navigate the child custody court order process.

1. Know the Details of Your Court Order

Carefully review all aspects of your custody order, so you clearly understand the terms. What are the scheduled custody days and times? What are the rules for switching days if needed? What holidays have defined schedules? Make sure to know the specifics of your pick-up/drop-off locations and logistics. Not knowing the details can be an issue for non-compliance, so understand the order inside and out.

2. Document Everything

Ensure you have a system to document exchanges, payments, issues with compliance, or anything else related to the enforcement of the court order. Keep a custody journal detailing pick-ups/drop-offs, payments, communication with the other party, or incidents that occur. Having documentation can help if contempt charges or other issues come up later down the road.

3. Communicate Schedule Changes in Writing

Understand that last-minute schedule changes can happen, but make sure any alterations are done in writing, even if done via text or email. Verbal agreements often result in "he said/she said" situations, so keep communication about changes related to the enforcement of the court order in some written form. This protects both parties.

4. Comply Fully With the Order

You must comply fully with all aspects of the custody order. Following it completely ensures you are not at risk of contempt charges. Even if you disagree with parts of the order or find it inconvenient, you must adhere to it. Violating any condition can cause legal problems, so comply fully no matter what.

5. Talk to Your Attorney About Changes

If certain aspects of your order become impractical, or you want alterations, communicate with your attorney on the proper legal process. For example, according to the Texas Family Code, child support percentages apply to the first $8,550.00 of the income of the non-custodial parent. If you'd like your child support percentages re-evaluated, consider talking with your lawyer. Never take compliance and enforcement of the court order into your own hands. Any unauthorized deviations can get you in hot water fast. Your attorney can petition the court for changes if needed.

Having a custody order brings structure and guidelines to help co-parents peacefully work together. Understanding the order, properly documenting issues, communicating schedule changes, and being responsible for compliance will help you navigate the process smoothly. If you are looking for an attorney to help you, call us today at the Law Office of Arthur J. White III, P.C. to schedule a consultation.